How is he hiding the chewing tobacco?

If he is blatantly lying to your face, and you are too scared to be open and honest with him, then why on earth are you with this man. Honestly, open your eyes sweet heart, he is lying to you. If there is no open communication on either side, then what's the point of persuing a relationship with this person. Whether it is a big lie or a small lie, it is still a lie.