Stripper issues???

I've only known this stripper for 1month but i've never taken her to the vip yet and she gave me her #. Been checkin her out and try to take her out for dinner but she always have excuses. I know the bartender and some of the bouncers at the club what should i do next to find out if she will date me or not????? she knows i'll never go to vip and i told her i'm not rich lol so give advice please on what to do!!!!!